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Wednesday, February 23, 2011

National Kidney Foundation - Kidney Walk 2011

As you might remember, last year, along with our friends and family, we participated in the annual Kidney Walk for the National Kidney Foundation.  Registration has now begun for this year’s walk, which will be held on Sunday, September 11, 2011.  Many people suffer from kidney disease and many don’t know it until the disease has already progressed.  Early detection is essential for the health of kidney patients.  Contributions to the National Kidney Foundation will help fund critical research, direct aid to kidney patients, and vital kidney disease screening programs.  NKF is important to all renal patients (those maintaining their disease with medication, those on dialysis, those awaiting transplants, etc.) and their families. 
As most of you know, our interest in helping NKF began when Dan was diagnosed with IgA Nephropathy on October 5, 2008.  To find out more about the walk, please visit our personal walk page at: http://donate.kidney.org/site/TR/Walk/Michigan?px=1682480&pg=personal&fr_id=3390.

Please help us join the fight against kidney disease.  You can do this by: 
  • Joining our team and walking with us ("Team Greenshields")
  • Walking as an individual or starting your own team
  • Making a financial contribution by check, or online at http://www.kidneywalk.org/
Make all checks payable to the NATIONAL KIDNEY FOUNDATION

By supporting our efforts in the Kidney Walk, you are helping stop kidney disease before it starts. You will also be helping improve care for current patients and help NKF’s search for a cure.

We are extremely proud to be a part of the fight against kidney disease, and we hope you will join us!

Sunday, February 13, 2011

63 more days!

Exactly 31 weeks today!  Yesterday was our 3D ultrasound.  We had one two weeks ago, but the tech suggested we come back at no additional charge to try and get a better view of Candace.  The first time we were there, she had her head tilted back the entire time, so the only view we could get of her face was distorted because we weren’t looking into it, but rather up at it.  Also, she kept playing with the umbilical cord and was closely snuggled to the placenta, in addition to loving her hands on or near her face.  Yesterday, she remained against the placenta, using it like a little pillow and still enjoying her toy (the umbilical cord); however, she did not have her head tilted, which allowed for a much better look at her beautiful face.  She looks quite peaceful in there and it was so cute to see her little hand resting against her head, but not covering it.  She’s adorable and her cheeks already seem so pudgy.  I can’t wait to hold her in my arms, kiss her and nibble on her little adorable toes….203 days down, only 63 more days until the due date, but with the way I’ve been feeling, I’m willing to bet we’ll be meeting her a little sooner than that. 

Thursday, February 10, 2011

Feels like the baby is going to fall out at any moment!

Today, I’m 30 weeks and 4 days along in my third pregnancy.  It seems like the baby has been incredibly low during the entire pregnancy, but as time passes, she seems to get lower and lower.  Sometimes, it’s difficult to walk without waddling, lol, and when I roll over at night, I feel like she’s going to burst out of me.  I didn’t experience this with either of my other two pregnancies and hope everything is ok.  I just saw the doctor two days ago and forgot to mention it, but the more I think about it, the more I wonder why. Curiosity got the best of me and I did a Google search today.  I believe it could be either Symphysis Pubis Dysfunction or I’m just simply experiencing lightening. 
Symphysis Pubis Dysfunction is experienced in about 1 in 35 pregnant women. It causes difficulty walking, climbing stairs, etc.  The pain is caused by a separation of the symphysis pubis (joint in the front of the pelvic bone).  Cartilage fills the gap in the bones, but during pregnancy, the hormones such as relaxin soften allowing the bones to become more flexible for delivery.  Sometimes this can happen too early or too much, resulting in pain. 
Lightening should occur towards the end of the third trimester, but can occur early.  This is basically just the baby transcending into the birth canal.  This causes pressure on the bladder and an uncomfortable tingling feeling in that area. 
Whatever it is, it is uncomfortable and I hope it eases up.  I’m moving slower, but trying to stay comfortable and safe.  I told Dan that if this feeling continues, I can’t imagine staying like this for almost another 10 weeks, but I suppose we’ll see what happens.  Comfortable or not, I am happy and feel blessed to be welcoming a healthy child.  My next appointment is on March 4th and I’m going to talk with the doctor more then. 


My efforts to extend my maternity leave...

So, I’ve been working for the City since December 2, 2009, but didn’t become an official employee until August 30, 2010.  The City hired me while I was still going to school and interning at the court and would not officially hire me until I finished my degree (which was done in August).  Because of this, I haven’t had much time to accumulate vacation, personal and sick days.  I do, however, get 6 weeks of short-term disability that I will towards my maternity leave, but I desperately want to take more than that.  In an effort to do this, I’ve been trying to save as much time as possible, by trying hard to not take any days off.  This has been challenging however, considering I have OB appointments, I’ve been sick with this upper respiratory infection and all of the accumulation of snow hasn’t helped with the commute out here.  To extend my efforts to earn money before, during and after maternity leave, I’ve posted a Craigslist ad and am trying to get it circulated in case anyone out there needs legal work.  Below is a copy of the ad, as well as a link. 
Paralegal/Legal Assistant looking to prepare documents for attorneys.

I am comfortable preparing and drafting pleadings on my own, filling out court forms, “ghost writing”, preparing demand letters, letters to the court and/or clients, enclosure letters, orders, motions, bankruptcy schedules, process service, etc.

I have worked as a legal assistant for 8 years and currently work for City Government. I am looking to work on the side at home or via remote access to earn additional income.

I have a Bachelor of Science Degree and an Associates of Business Degree, both of which were obtained via Legal Assistant/Paralegal Programs. Please contact me for a copy of my resume. I can also provide you with references, a link to my LinkedIn page, as well as copies of my degree and transcripts.

I have experience in the following areas:

• Bankruptcy
• Litigation
• Contracts
• General Civil & Criminal Proceedings
• Traffic Offenses
• Collection Matters
• Debt Negotiation/Resolution
• DUI Charges
• Family Law
• Probate

I consider myself

• Highly Motivated;
• A Self Starter;
• Detail Oriented;
• Organized; and
• Responsible

I am competent working under pressure and with deadlines. I possess great writing and editorial skills, in addition to excellent personal and phone skills. I type at about 80 words per minute.

Please contact me via email for more information or to discuss the above in greater detail.

Change

We’re now about two weeks into February and it’s hard to believe how fast the time is flying by.  It’s hard to believe that in just 50 days, we’ll be moving and in 53 days Zach will be starting his new school.  On Monday, I emailed his current teacher to let her know that we’ll be moving and he’ll be switching school districts.  She replied to my email sincerely and with compliment: “I will be sad to see Zach go--he is such a great student and awesome helper!...I will try to think of some way for the kids to say good-bye before he leaves…. Congratulations on your new home and good luck to all of you and especially on your new little one”.  This makes me sad and I realize that not only are Dan and I going through big changes, but the kids are too.  I remember switching schools in 9th grade and that was tough.  I don’t know what it’ll be like for a fourth grader.  The only good I see in the switching of the schools is that when Amber starts kindergarten in the fall, her and Zach will be in the same school (at least for a year).  Whereas, here in Westland, Zach’s elementary school ends at fourth grade and he would have started the lower middle school in the fall.  I'm happy that Zach will be able to sort of "keep an eye" an Amber during her first year of school.  I also know that Zach is very sociable and he seems to adapt to change well, so even though he’s leaving his friends and his classmates, my hope is that he’ll meet and make even more friends in the new neighborhood and school district. 

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Making Homes Affordable - Yeah, Right!

I hate going through troubled times, but who doesn’t.  Rather than getting upset, I choose to inform other people so that they can be educated on what’s going on in the world.  Has anyone heard of the “Making Homes Affordable” Program (HAMP)?  If not, here is a link:  http://www.makinghomeaffordable.gov/.  In short, this is a modification program offered by the federal government to make monthly mortgage payments more affordable. You first contact your lender about the program and if your payment is more than 31% of your income, you likely qualify.  After qualifying, you provide the lender with requested documents (pay stubs, bank statements, profit & loss statements, etc.).  Once they have this info, they provide you with a “trial” documents and a reduced payment.  After making three trial payments and providing the required documents, you are supposed to be placed into a permanent modification.  The problem, however, is that many homeowners are never placed into a permanent modification.  Instead, lenders keep these modifications in limbo, extend them as much as they can, all the while collecting payments from homeowners.  I know this, because it happened to me. 
Dan and I applied for a modification after his diagnosis and after I lost my job and was laid off for 9 months. When we contacted our lender, Chase, we were advised that the only way we could qualify for the program is if we were to fall behind on our payments.  Chase advised us to skip a payment to qualify for this program.  Stupidly, we took their advice.  After skipping a payment, we met with a representative at the Troy, MI branch.  This meeting was then followed-up by document exchanges sent via fax and FedEx to the main Chase office in Ohio.  Following this, we received our “trial” documents and began making our payments. 
During this time, we continued to receive letters stating that they needed more documents (documents that had already been provided & were provided on multiple occasions).  After making more than a year’s worth of payments, we received Notice that we did not qualify for the program.  Why, then, did they continue to accept our payments every single month? 
After telling us we didn’t qualify, we were given multiple reasons for the denial…first, we made too much; second, we didn’t make enough; third, we didn’t provide enough documents. 
Their next suggestion was to have us re-apply for the program, which we did.  During this process, our loan was transferred to a “servicing” company, IBM LBPS.  They hold themselves up as a mortgage company, but I really can’t see past their real operation – debt collection. This company gave us the same runaround as Chase – we again applied for a modification and after many unreturned phone calls, etc., we were advised via a taped phone conversation that our modification was approved.  We were even given a payment, an interest rate, a due date, etc., but then, guess what?  Yep, somehow it was denied after it was approved. 
Along with losing the house is the extreme damage that it has caused to my credit.  What applicants aren’t clearly advised of is that payments made through a “trial” modification aren’t applied to the loan, nor are they reported to the credit bureaus.  So, after more than a year of making payments, I owe more on my house than what I mortgaged it for and my credit report reflects that I haven’t made any payments! 
Not knowing what else to do, Dan and I contacted a consumer protection attorney who has filed a lawsuit against JP Morgan Chase in the Federal Court here in Michigan, but in the meantime, there remains little we can do to keep our home.  We relied on the false promises and assurances that our mortgage company provided.  While the lawsuit is pending, we have listed our home for sale as a “short-sale”.  Here is a link to the listing:  http://www.realestateone.com/homes/211003585_MIRC-34569_Blackfoot_St-Westland-MI-48185.  The house is now listed for less than 90k, a significant amount less than what we "owe".  My hope in sharing this information is that more people will not be lured into this program and that if you have been wronged; that you find the courage to take it to court and fight for what is right. 
If, by chance, you are involved in a situation similar to the nightmare above, I can refer you to our attorney, who only handles consumer protection affairs.  I can also refer you to our realtor, who specializes in short sales and has experience dealing with situations similar to ours. 
                                                                                      

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

30 weeks!!!

Today was my 30 week check-up at U of M.  The appointment was during what was supposed to be my lunch break, but it ended up being quite an extended break since there was absolutely NO PARKING in any of the structures.  They couldn’t explain why, but all of the structures were completely full....mass trauma, overbooking of apointments, IDK.  I ended up parking via valet at the ER, which seemed to cause even more problems and then I was a half hour late for the appointment.  I thought for sure that I had elevated my blood pressure, lol, but it was normal, as usual and hearing the baby’s heartbeat was worth the parking chaos. :)  Today, her heartbeat was 136, which is a little lower than usual, but still normal.  Over the past couple of days, her kicks have been more forceful. I swear she’s trying to break out, lol.  I am exactly 30 weeks and 2 days along, but the doctor said I’m only measuring at 28 weeks.  She said it’s nothing to be concerned about though because the baby measured right on schedule at our last ultrasound and all seems well.  Other than that, my last blood test showed that I’m anemic again, so they gave me a prescription for iron.  My next appointment is March 8th and by then I’ll be 34 weeks!  We continue to stay busy with work and life, preparing for Candace’s arrival and the upcoming move.  I’m sure over these next few weeks things will move even faster than they have been. 

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Today

This blog was created today, February 1, 2011.  We have created the blog to keep in touch with those we care about and so that those we care about can see what's going on in our lives.  We have created the blog for various reasons and may use this as a way of weaning ourselves off of Facebook.  For now, we have created pages about each of our family members:  Dan, Rachel, Zach, Amber, Baby and "Us".  To find out about us, just click on any of the pages directly to the left.  We've also added a few links that include the CaringBridge website that was set up when Dan was diagnosed with kidney disease, Rachel's LinkedIn page and Dan's business website.  As things happen in our lives, we will share them here.  :)